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The important thing to keep in mind during this stage is that it’s normal – yes, a man will spend time with you before fully committing.

If you’re both enjoying your time together, he treats you well, and you’re feeling good about the relationship in general, resist the urge to think too far ahead.

It’s natural for you to want to know that things are progressing in a relationship, but talking about it before a man is ready can often prevent the closeness you want.

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The trick in this stage is to take the pressure off the future and enjoy getting to know him, while also being clear that you are evaluating your future together: “I’m happy with you and I want to keep dating, but the future’s important to me, too.

So let’s see how we feel about things over the next few weeks or months (set a time here you feel comfortable with), and we’ll decide if there’s something more serious that we both want.”When you say this to a guy, there’s an unconscious button that’s pushed in his mind that tells him that you are a respectable and desirable woman who has the ability and the strength to pick and choose what happens in your life, and he better rise to the occasion.

By focusing on having fun and getting to know him during the first two stages, you’ve taken the pressure off of him, and he can naturally relax into the relationship.

He sees you as a woman who doesn’t simply have an agenda to be in a committed relationship, but rather as a woman who genuinely wants to be in a relationship with him.

If you are the one doing the convincing, you do not create the space to see if HE will step forward and pursue YOU. Your “resistance” will also inspire him to want to pursue you, rather than resist progress in your relationship.

So take your foot off the accelerator and let a man initiate his interactions with you.

A great event to go to is Speed Dating in Newcastle.

How it works is our friendly professional hosts will greet you and they will settle you in by briefly explaining the format of the Speed Dating evening.

The Boulevard Restaurant offers modern European cuisine, and the Lounge Bar is famed for afternoon tea.

Facilities include a stunning private garden and The Kensington Close Health Club and Spa - a luxurious and tranquil retreat with an 18m swimming pool, fully equipped gymnasium, fitness suite and treatment rooms.

Only then will you progress to…This is that “in-between” stage.

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